Can My Spouse Legally Track Me With an AirTag?

Imagine feeling as though every step you take is being watched, every move tracked, even when you're alone. For many, this unsettling scenario is no longer just a fear; it's a reality.
With the rise of tracking technology like Apple AirTags, questions around privacy, safety, and legality have become increasingly urgent, leaving individuals to wonder what rights they truly have. When someone’s freedom of movement feels compromised, the situation often intersects with complicated legal and personal challenges.
If you’re navigating concerns of being tracked by an AirTag–whether by a spouse, former partner, or anyone else–it's important to understand your rights. Family law situations, such as separations, divorces, or custody disputes, commonly bring these issues to the forefront.
With over 25 years of experience, our family law attorneys at Ward Family Law Group can help shed light on the intersection of family law and modern technology.
Apple AirTags, small devices designed for tracking belongings, utilize Bluetooth technology to help users locate misplaced items. When attached to objects like keys, bags, or wallets, AirTags work in tandem with Apple's "Find My" network to reveal their location.
While this technology has practical and legitimate uses, it can also be exploited to track individuals without their consent. Unfortunately, in the context of contentious relationships or custody disputes, AirTags may become tools of control or intimidation.
Under North Carolina law, tracking someone without their permission can quickly cross the line into illegal activity. While the specifics depend on the context and intent, unauthorized surveillance often falls into the category of stalking or harassment.
Using an AirTag to monitor someone secretly, such as a spouse or ex-partner, violates their privacy and can carry legal consequences. For instance, North Carolina's statutes on stalking emphasize that conduct that causes another person to fear for their safety or suffer substantial emotional distress is prohibited.
Installing a tracking device without explicit consent could easily meet this threshold, especially in cases where the tracking is persistent, covert, or linked to threatening behavior.
AirTags can be a helpful tool for tracking belongings, but they can also be misused in troubling ways.If you discover that an AirTag is being used to monitor your movements, act quickly but cautiously. Here are some steps to consider:
Confirm the AirTag's presence: Modern smartphones, particularly iPhones, will notify users if an AirTag is traveling with them. Android users can download Apple’s "Tracker Detect" app to scan for nearby devices.
Disable the device: If you locate the AirTag, you can disable it by removing its battery. This prevents the device from transmitting your location any further.
Document everything: Take photos of the AirTag, its location when discovered, and any notifications you received. This evidence could be critical in any legal proceedings.
Report the incident: File a report with your local law enforcement agency. Tracking someone without consent is a serious matter, and police can help investigate the situation.
Consult an attorney: Talking to a family law attorney is crucial if the tracking is part of a larger issue, such as a custody battle or separation. At Ward Family Law Group, we can provide clarity on your rights and help you take the legal steps necessary to protect yourself.
Family law cases, particularly those involving separation, divorce, or custody battles, can create situations where the boundaries of lawful conduct blur. It’s not uncommon for one spouse to justify tracking the other under claims of concern for safety or issues related to child custody.
However, such actions often overlook privacy rights and can escalate tensions, undermining the legal process. For example, tracking a co-parent to determine how they are spending their time with the children might feel justified to some, but it can lead to negative implications in family court.
Judges often take privacy violations into account when making custody decisions, as such behavior may reflect poorly on the character or judgment of the party who is tracking.
At our firm, Ward Family Law Group, we understand how intimidating it can feel to be tracked or monitored by someone close to you. Our attorneys bring decades of experience we can utilize to help in these sensitive situations. We offer both legal expertise and compassionate support.
Whether you need advice on how to respond to unauthorized tracking, guidance through a divorce or custody dispute, or help filing protective orders, we are here to stand by your side.
Family law is complicated enough without the added stress of feeling like your privacy is being invaded. Our attorneys, certified by the North Carolina State Bar as specialists in family law, are well-equipped to address both the legal and emotional challenges such cases entail.
Technology will always evolve, but your right to privacy is constant. If you suspect that an AirTag or similar device has been used to compromise your privacy, know that you don’t have to face this situation alone.
At Ward Family Law Group, we are here to offer you experienced legal counsel and the peace of mind that comes with knowing your rights are protected. Contact us today. We’re ready to help you take back control and move forward confidently.