How Courts Divide Marital Property After a Long-Term Marriage

By Ward Family Law Group
Model house split in two symbolizing divorce and property division

When a long-term marriage ends, dividing marital property is often one of the most significant aspects of the process. In North Carolina, courts follow the equitable distribution principle, which means property is divided in a manner that the court deems fair, although not necessarily equal. 

At Ward Family Law Group, we focus on guiding individuals and families through sensitive family law matters with thoughtful counsel and practical strategies. From separation and divorce to property division, child custody, and support, we recognize that these issues affect both personal relationships and long-term financial stability.

We know how important clarity is during these discussions, so we aim to explain how marital property is assessed, valued, and divided after years of shared life, financial decisions, and contributions.

Our experienced family law attorneys provide representation grounded in thorough preparation, clarity, and personalized care tailored to each individual’s unique circumstances.

We serve clients throughout Wake County, including Cary and Wake Forest, as well as Durham County, Chatham County, Orange County, Johnston County, and Franklin County. If you’re facing questions about your rights or obligations in a family law matter, we encourage you to contact us to discuss your situation and explore your options.

What Counts as Marital Property

Before anything can be divided, we first have to identify what qualifies as marital property. In North Carolina, marital property generally includes assets and debts acquired from the date of marriage until the date of separation. That includes income, real estate, retirement accounts, vehicles, and even household items purchased during the marriage.

By contrast, separate property belongs to just one spouse. That typically includes property owned before marriage, gifts or inheritances received individually, and assets defined as separate in a valid prenuptial agreement. Distinguishing between marital property and separate property becomes especially important after a long-term marriage.

Why the Length of the Marriage Matters

When a marriage lasts many years, courts often review more detailed financial histories. Over time, spouses typically combine their resources, share financial decisions, and contribute in ways that may not be easily quantified in dollars. We see situations where one spouse manages household duties while the other earns income. 

Long-term marriages often include significant assets like real estate, retirement funds, or business interests acquired during the relationship. Courts typically take a closer look at contributions and financial conduct throughout the marriage for a fair division of marital property.

Equitable Distribution in North Carolina

North Carolina courts follow equitable distribution. That means marital property is divided based on fairness. Equal division is often a starting point, but courts can adjust the distribution based on several factors.

These factors may include:

  • Income and property each spouse will have after the distribution

  • Duration of the marriage

  • Contributions to marital property, including nonfinancial efforts

  • Age and health of both spouses

  • Support obligations from prior marriages

  • Tax implications of dividing certain assets

We focus on these statutory factors when preparing a case to present clear and relevant information to the court.

Identifying and Classifying Property

The first step in any equitable distribution is classifying assets and debts. We organize property into three categories: marital, separate, and divisible property. Divisible property refers to specific financial changes that occur after separation but before the final court order, such as interest on marital accounts or passive income from marital assets.

Correct classification helps avoid property being mistakenly included or excluded from the marital property pool. When disagreements arise, financial records, titles, account statements, or testimony can help the court determine what belongs in each category.

Valuing Marital Property Accurately

Once the property is classified, it must be valued. Courts typically consider the fair market value as of the date of separation. For items like homes, appraisals may be used. For retirement accounts, financial institution statements are commonly reviewed. 

In some cases, businesses or professional entities must also be valued, especially if they were created or grew during the marriage.

Accurate valuation is critical, especially in long-term marriages with significant growth in marital assets. We meticulously gather documentation and review financial records to make sure the court has the necessary information to resolve value disputes fairly.

When Separate Property Becomes Mixed

In longer marriages, separate property can become mixed with marital property. This is called commingling. For example, if one spouse owned a house before marriage but both spouses contributed to mortgage payments and improvements during the marriage, a portion of that home's value may become marital property.

To untangle commingled assets, we gather bank records, receipts, closing documents, and other financial information. Clear records make it easier to identify which portions are marital property and which remain separate.

Factors Courts Consider in Long-Term Marriages

While the law applies the same general process for any marriage, long-term marriages often bring specific details into sharper focus. Courts may give more weight to:

  • Contributions to the household, even if not financial

  • Sacrifices one spouse made for the other's career or schooling

  • Health concerns and future earning potential

  • Retirement considerations and financial security after divorce

Over time, spouses often shape each other's future prospects. Courts recognize those shared efforts when dividing marital property.

Debt Is Part of Marital Property Too

Marital property isn't limited to assets. Debts acquired during the marriage are also subject to distribution. That includes mortgages, credit card balances, business debts, and loans. Courts evaluate who incurred the debt, how it benefited the marriage, and who is better positioned to repay it. We help prepare documentation showing how debts were used and whether they relate to marital purposes or individual actions.

Retirement Accounts and Marital Property

Retirement assets such as pensions, 401(k)s, and IRAs are often among the largest marital property assets in long-term marriages. Even if these accounts are in one spouse's name, contributions made during the marriage are generally considered marital property.

Courts may divide these accounts using a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO). This document allows division without tax penalties when done correctly. We prepare these orders carefully to reflect the court's decision.

Real Estate and the Marital Home

The marital home frequently holds financial and emotional value. In long-term marriages, couples often invest heavily in the property through renovations, mortgage payments, and upkeep.

Courts may distribute the home in several ways:

  • One spouse keeps the home and buys out the other's interest.

  • The home is sold, and the proceeds are divided.

  • Temporary possession is often granted to one spouse, particularly when minor children are involved.

Choosing the right approach depends on factors such as affordability, needs, and long-term stability.

Business Interests as Marital Property

If either spouse owns a business created during the marriage or expanded significantly during that time, part or all of it may be considered marital property. Courts evaluate when the business began, how it grew, and whether marital funds or efforts contributed to its success.

Division doesn’t always mean splitting ownership. Courts might compensate a spouse with other assets or financial payments. We strive to maintain accurate business records and assist in determining appropriate valuations.

Contributions Beyond Income

Financial contributions matter, but courts also recognize nonfinancial efforts. Raising children, managing the home, and supporting a spouse's career are part of how marital property is built over time.

We stress that both spouses contribute differently. A marriage lasting decades often includes periods where one spouse prioritizes caregiving or household responsibilities. Courts consider these efforts when dividing property.

Tax Considerations in Property Division

Dividing marital property also involves understanding tax effects. Selling a home may lead to capital gains taxes. Transferring retirement funds without proper documentation can result in penalties. These issues are particularly important when distributing property fairly.

We pay attention to how timing, transfer methods, and asset types affect taxes. That helps us organize property divisions that avoid unexpected financial burdens later.

When Spouses Reach Their Own Agreement

While courts can decide how to divide marital property, spouses may agree on their own terms through a separation agreement. These agreements can encompass property division, spousal support, and other related issues. If written and signed correctly, they can be binding and enforceable.

Reaching an agreement may reduce stress and help both parties maintain control over decisions. We help clients put their agreements in writing in a way that aligns with North Carolina law.

What Happens When the Court Decides

If spouses can’t agree on how to divide marital property, the court holds a hearing. Both sides present evidence, identify marital property, explain valuations, and argue for a fair division. After reviewing the evidence, the court enters an equitable distribution order.

The court reviews each statutory factor, considers testimony, and issues a decision based on fairness. We make sure the information provided is thorough and relevant.

Common Mistakes to Avoid

People sometimes make decisions early in the separation process that affect their share of marital property. To avoid potential problems, it's helpful to:

  • Keep records of income, expenses, and assets

  • Avoid hiding or transferring property

  • Continue paying essential bills to protect marital property

  • Stay informed about retirement accounts and insurance policies

We encourage careful planning from the beginning of the process.

How Marital Misconduct Can Affect Property Division

North Carolina allows courts to consider certain forms of marital misconduct. While misconduct doesn't automatically alter how marital property is divided, financial misconduct, such as wasting marital funds, can influence the distribution. For example, if one spouse used marital funds for personal purposes unrelated to the marriage, the court may compensate the other spouse by adjusting property division.

Looking Ahead After the Marriage Ends

Dividing marital property after a long-term marriage isn’t just about ending the past; it's also about preparing for the future. Property division affects housing, retirement, savings, and long-term financial stability.

We help clients organize assets, understand their rights, and make informed choices about settlement or litigation. Each decision made today will impact stability in the years to come.

Speak to a Divorce Lawyer About Your Future Today

If you have questions about dividing marital property after a long-term marriage, we encourage you to reach out to one of our attorneys at Ward Family Law Group. We help families across North Carolina, including Wake County, Durham County, Chatham County, Orange County, Johnston County, and Franklin County, in organizing financial records, assessing property, and presenting information to the court thoughtfully.

We recognize the emotional and financial impact that property division can have, and we work with families to address their concerns while considering the broader implications for housing, retirement, and support. By discussing your circumstances with us, we can help determine the best way to protect your interests and understand your options for equitable distribution.

Together, we can plan for a resolution that respects your contributions, safeguards your financial future, and allows your family to move forward with clarity. Contact Ward Family Law Group today to schedule a consultation.